[Sigh.]

I appreciate that you are coming from a good place...[She...assumes?? Unless there's some sinister motive behind all this or something.]...in offering what you are offering, but being focused is enjoyable. Challenging yourself to improve is enjoyable.

Just because you do not enjoy it does not make it unenjoyable. Life isn't black and white that way...if things were that simple, I'd say this world wouldn't be at war to begin with. No world would.